The Things I Would Tell You

The Things I Would Tell You: British Muslim Women Write is an anthology of literature written by twenty-two British Muslim women and edited by Sabrina Mahfouz. Rather than being a book about faith, this book is sometimes about the lived experiences of women who exist in the intersection of their Britishness and another identity and is sometimes simply an exhibition of these women’s literary talent. Some of the pieces are set in the UK; others are set in Palestine, Pakistan, and Yemen.

The contributors include big literary names like Ahdaf Soueif, Leila Aboulela, and Kamila Shamsie as well as newer authors. The pieces include short stories, poems, short plays, news-style articles, spoken-word pieces, and memoir-style nonfiction. Some are dark and heavy; others have a lighter tone. They are all honest, powerful, and moving. Emotionally resonant and deeply thoughtful, most of the pieces in this anthology will hold up to several readings.

As in any anthology, I liked some of the pieces more than others. But I liked enough of them well enough to want my own copy. Here are some of pieces that resonated with me the most.

“The Right Word,” a poem by Imtiaz Dharker, explores how the words that we use to describe people color our understanding of them before we’ve even met them and the devastating consequences of that.

The right word
Outside the door,
lurking in the shadows,
is a terrorist.

“Us,” by Chimene Suleyman, is a simple story about Islamophobia, but it is so evocatively written, and it so perfectly captures the feeling of fear in the face of the senselessness. This story should be required reading.

With bags of shopping in her hands, Madeeha was guilty until proven innocent: she hated British people and cheered the deaths of western journalists and soldiers. She had information on future acts of terror and could conceal a weapon beneath her garments. Truth was irrelevant, even proof wasn’t required. This backwards, barbaric society she belonged to, for didn’t they treat their women appallingly? And yet the man in the grey suit gripped the back of her arm.

“Battleface,” by Sabrina Mahfouz, is a short play about loyalty and the faces we show to one another. Its form is simple, but it is fabulously layered and will stick with me for a long time.

I also discovered the poetry of Hibaq Osman, which is hard-hitting: surprising, breathtaking, and relatable. From “The Things I Would Tell You”:

Immigrant kids speak a language
only broken souls can read,
same one you were fluent in.
You gave away a tongue and picked up another
padlocked language, recognised your lungs
in pages of Arabic script.

. . .

I would tell you
Mum has nightmares still
a fresh scar torn every day while I slowly forget your face
and if this world is a stage then brother I am nervous
shaking, pushing words out too fast,
trying to catch my breath
and tripping over things I haven’t said yet.

From “July and the Following Months”:

I think you are lucky
to be able to have a bird’s-eye view
while we stand in the middle of it,
one eye to the backs of us, the other on our feet
making sure we are ready to run when we need to

From “The One I Try to Forget”:

When you made your way back to
women who trust you
hiding my screams in your pockets
Where did the guilt go?

If you’ve read this anthology, please let which pieces were your favorites. And I’m curious if anyone is aware of similar projects—let me know if you know of one!

You can find it here: GoodreadsAmazon (US) | Book Depository

The Secret Lives of the Amir Sisters by Nadiya Hussain



The Secret Lives of the Amir Sisters is an adult contemporary novel by Nadiya Hussain, who won the Great British Bake Off. It’s a story about a Bangladeshi family living in the English countryside told from the alternating points of view of the four daughters.

This book was just okay for me.

  • The characters were almost caricaturish in the way they fit into neat little boxes, each fulfilling a role: the rebellious sister, the nurturing sister, the trendy sister, and the insecure sister.
  • There was way too much going on in the plot.
  • And it tied up too neatly at the end with a really unrealistic resolution to one of the biggest conflicts.

There is another installment about the Amir sisters coming out in the US in January. I might pick it up just to see what happens to these characters next. I might not.

Sea Prayer by Khaled Hosseini


No words to describe this stunning new book from Khaled Hosseini. Inspired by the Syrian refugee crisis, this book is a prayer from a father for his son as they wait to board a boat. The writing is as heartbreakingly beautiful as the illustrations are evocative.


It begins with the father’s memories of the Syria before: “the creek where your uncles and I built a thousand boyhood dams.”

. . . moves into the reality of this generation’s Syria: “You know a bomb crater can be made into a swimming hole.”

. . . and ends with the sea: “how vast, how indifferent. How powerless I am to protect you from it.”


It’s a book that’s not easy to classify. Perhaps “an illustrated poem inspired by true events and intended for adults” is the closest I can get. In any case, it’s one of my favorite books of the year.

Part of the proceeds go to UNHCR, so go get your copy now.

Book Review—A Treasury of Ghazali by Mustafa Abu Sway


A Treasury of Ghazali is a beautiful collection of quotations by Imam al-Ghazali with commentary by Mustafa Abu Sway. The tiny, digestible chapters are each based on one quote of the Imam: the original Arabic, an English translation, and a commentary by the author. Meant to be read in small doses, the quotes cover spiritual topics like sincerity in intention, happiness, patience against sin, and detachment from the dunya (worldly life). View Post